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Dear Girls, 

Just when I thought I didn't deserve anything good someone showed up in my life and proved me wrong. I prayed to God and ask him to show me the right path, to guide me closer to what was meant for me. I stopped entertaining certain people and took some much needed time to work on myself; I started eating healthier, started working out, started hanging around positive people which lead me into making better decisions for my life and before I knew it good things were happening. I was finally happy with who I was becoming. 

There is a lesson to be learnt here, stop allowing past mistakes to ruin your life, stop dwelling on a ex, stop stalking their social media, what they do shouldn't have any effect on you and you need to make a promise with yourself and God that you're gonna move on and not let an ex hold you back. 

Move on and start making decisions that will positively impact your life and trust me honey when I say that you will be rewarded. As long as you've been working on bettering yourself, when the time is right, someone is going to enter your life and show why it never worked out with any of the other douche bags. He's gonna love and respect you in ways nobody has ever done. He will treat you like a queen. 

He'll show you off to his parents and friends. He will claim you and not let you look like a fool. He'll worship you like a goddess and that's when you'll realize what love actually is. That's when you'll realize how special and beautiful you are. He will never forget to let you know that you're worth it. He will make time out of his busy schedule to see you. He'll call you and text you through out the day. You won't ever have to question his loyalty and have second thoughts. He'll be completely honest with you. And this is when you'll know that you've found your king. . 

He'll take you on real dates, he won't ask you if you wanna Netflix and chill. He'll bring you flowers and chocolate when he picks you up. He'll hold your hand while he drives and he'll kiss the back of your palm occasionally and all will be right with the world, with your world. He'll take on fancy dinners, he'll hold your hand in public as you walk, he will open doors for you. He will include you in future plans. He'll include you in his life plans and that is when you'll know that you've got a keeper and you will love this man with all you've got because you've love and done so much for the wrong people. Imagine what you'd for the right one. 

Love Always, 

Seema Sammy. 

Miss Moving On

Dear Girls, 

Look at you, make up fucked up from crying.

After you gave that fuckboy one last chance, again.

And you were played for a fool, again. When will you learn, when will enough be enough? Your heart can only take so much you know, from the sadness in your eyes I'd say you've reached your limit. I know it's hard to see through those tears, I know it's hard to accept that you have to let go of all the time you spent, all the wasted years. But you're still so young, so beautiful, so full of life and no matter what he's taken from you, how badly you let him destroy you he can never take your heart away from you. Broken and bruised but that shit still works, it still finds a way to beat, finds a way to keep surviving. You will too.I promise you the world isn't over yet and you've still got a whole lot of living to do, maybe even a few more heart breaks to endure and lessons to learn. Appreciate it all, there's beauty in the chaos and there is something to be appreciated in every aspect of life.

Dry those tears, fix that crown, and hold your head high while you pick up the broken pieces and keep it moving. 

Love Always, 

Seema Sammy. 

You don't need their validation

Dear Girls,

Insecurities, we all have them, but don't make them an excuse to tear someone else down. I don't need validation from anyone. I'm my own person and I'll forever stand by my decisions. You shouldn't be bothered by my appearance, I'm definitely not bothered by yours. I'm fat and short, and I own several mirrors. I'm aware of how I look and nothing negative said can hurt me, you're not God so that shit will and never affect me. 

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No matter how you look, it's inevitable that people will stare at you. Don't allow someone's dirty look to influence how you feel about yourself. I get dirty looks all day, maybe it's because I'm fat or it could be that I'm rather beautiful and their too timid to let me know? Whatever it maybe, I know better than to let it get to me. 

Have a safe weekend. Go out and be bomb bitches!

Love, 
Seema Sammy. 

Exhale the bullshit

Dear Girls, 

So I made a promise to myself that I will have a blog up at least twice a week. I've said this before and have failed, sorry :(. This organization thing is kind of hard but I'll master it, eventually. Anyways, here's a little positivity for my loves. 

I know most, if not all of you have had some weak moments in your life, especially if you've been in a toxic relationship and finally you found the courage to move on. Trust me it's not easy but this is what I had to do. I had to muster all the courage I have, every little bit to do what I did. 

I had to take it back; the power he had in my life. He didn't  deserve that, such things should be reserved for someone who shows me unconditional love and never leaves me in doubt. But him, fuck him, all he ever did was take advantage of my willingness to love and trust, only to tear me apart. I don't deserve that and he didn't serve me. 

I hope you guys keep making the right decision and if no one has told you lately then I will tell you. You deserve the best! Don't ever settle or put up with bullshit. 

Love Always, 
Seema Sammy. 

Update!

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Dear Girls, 

I've been in a very happy place lately and today's blog will be very casual. I didn't write a draft first, I just sat down and started writing what I'm feeling, there's no editing, I won't google a word to use in place of another. This blog is very raw and precise, might be boring. 

The thing is, our life doesn't depend on a another person to make us happy. We have to be our own happiness and when we've achieved that, then whoever comes in our life and add to that happiness will be an added bonus. Sometimes someone comes in your life and suddenly everything changes, they raise your standards, makes you laugh more, make you feel comfortable. There is something about them you can't exactly put in words but you just thank God for sending them in your life. 

From the moment you started talking to them, you knew that you wanted them around. It is so easy to be yourself around them, you didn't have to try hard, the conversations just flowed and everything else followed. I feel like everything in my life has led me to them. My choices, my heart breaks, my regrets, everything. And when we're together, my past seems worth it because had I done one thing differently I might never have met them or appreciate everything thing they have done for me. 

I hope everyone's having a lovely Sunday. 

Love Always, 

Seema Sammy. 

Dear Self, Happiness can only exist in acceptance.

Dear Girls, 

"Happiness can only exist in acceptance"

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Acceptance

Just when you think you’ll never get over someone, it happens. As you lie in bed, you realize that you haven’t thought about them once all day. Their voice becomes fuzzier and fuzzier, and their face seems to fade in your mind. You realize that you feel nothing. It isn’t a bad feeling, not one of loneliness or sadness, but, instead, it is a feeling of simplicity. Like you got a fresh start.

And of course, when that song comes on the radio, your mind will wonder, you’re going to think of them. And when someone mentions their name, your head will turn. But you’ll no longer be filled with the emptiness that you thought you were going to have to get used to for the rest of your life. They’ll no loner be the last thing you think about before falling asleep. You’ll no longer check your phone for their call.

And maybe, one day, you’ll be able to tell stories about that past love. Maybe your bittersweet memories will turn into joyous ones. And maybe, just maybe, you’ll be able to look back, smile and thank God because He has lead you to the path that has change your life for the better. 

Love Always, 
Seema Sammy. 

Post Break Up Letters: To The Next Person She Loves.

Dear Girls, 

Know that someday, there will be a person out there who is the person you are meant to be with. It will be the person that God put in this world to make you happy.  

Cheer up, sweet, beautiful girl. You're going to love again and it will be magnificent! 

To The Next Person She loves;

"Please make sure you really want and love her before getting into anything with her. She does not deserve to have her heart broken. She deserves someone who will love her at her best and at her worst, someone who will understand her even in her darkest hours.

Please do not push her into being something she is not. She is not like most women. She is special - and I mean it. She is the most amazing person I have ever known and she should not change a single bit of who she is. If she gets sad or angry, let her. 

If she tells you she needs some time to think, give her time. If she tells you she is so happy that she could just scream in joy, believe her.

Please give her the best of you. Please kiss her tenderly - she prefers soft kisses rather than wild ones. Please understand her love for writing and nature. It is what takes her mind off her problems. Please be happy for her when she accomplishes anything. Please give her all your loving. She deserves to feel loved more than anything in the world. And please, please, hold her close in your arms and never let go, for I would give anything to be lucky enough to be able to hug her once again."

Love Always, 
Seema Sammy.