You don't need their validation

Dear Girls,

Insecurities, we all have them, but don't make them an excuse to tear someone else down. I don't need validation from anyone. I'm my own person and I'll forever stand by my decisions. You shouldn't be bothered by my appearance, I'm definitely not bothered by yours. I'm fat and short, and I own several mirrors. I'm aware of how I look and nothing negative said can hurt me, you're not God so that shit will and never affect me. 

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No matter how you look, it's inevitable that people will stare at you. Don't allow someone's dirty look to influence how you feel about yourself. I get dirty looks all day, maybe it's because I'm fat or it could be that I'm rather beautiful and their too timid to let me know? Whatever it maybe, I know better than to let it get to me. 

Have a safe weekend. Go out and be bomb bitches!

Love, 
Seema Sammy. 

Exhale the bullshit

Dear Girls, 

So I made a promise to myself that I will have a blog up at least twice a week. I've said this before and have failed, sorry :(. This organization thing is kind of hard but I'll master it, eventually. Anyways, here's a little positivity for my loves. 

I know most, if not all of you have had some weak moments in your life, especially if you've been in a toxic relationship and finally you found the courage to move on. Trust me it's not easy but this is what I had to do. I had to muster all the courage I have, every little bit to do what I did. 

I had to take it back; the power he had in my life. He didn't  deserve that, such things should be reserved for someone who shows me unconditional love and never leaves me in doubt. But him, fuck him, all he ever did was take advantage of my willingness to love and trust, only to tear me apart. I don't deserve that and he didn't serve me. 

I hope you guys keep making the right decision and if no one has told you lately then I will tell you. You deserve the best! Don't ever settle or put up with bullshit. 

Love Always, 
Seema Sammy. 

Update!

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Dear Girls, 

I've been in a very happy place lately and today's blog will be very casual. I didn't write a draft first, I just sat down and started writing what I'm feeling, there's no editing, I won't google a word to use in place of another. This blog is very raw and precise, might be boring. 

The thing is, our life doesn't depend on a another person to make us happy. We have to be our own happiness and when we've achieved that, then whoever comes in our life and add to that happiness will be an added bonus. Sometimes someone comes in your life and suddenly everything changes, they raise your standards, makes you laugh more, make you feel comfortable. There is something about them you can't exactly put in words but you just thank God for sending them in your life. 

From the moment you started talking to them, you knew that you wanted them around. It is so easy to be yourself around them, you didn't have to try hard, the conversations just flowed and everything else followed. I feel like everything in my life has led me to them. My choices, my heart breaks, my regrets, everything. And when we're together, my past seems worth it because had I done one thing differently I might never have met them or appreciate everything thing they have done for me. 

I hope everyone's having a lovely Sunday. 

Love Always, 

Seema Sammy.