Dear Girls,
"Not anymore, although at one point I was very upset with you.But you see, now I understand that letting go of you freed me up to embrace what was coming for me, and no offense but what came after you was better for me.
That's the way it should have been for both of us though because you went off doing yourself never looking back on me, so for you to be here begging on my door step after I've consciously moved on is unfair.
What this shows me is not only did you not deserve me or my love back then, but even if by some miracle of a chance I was to take you back now, you'd still lack the capacity to respect me and you still don't deserve me."
Seema Sammy.
I just wanted to say your blog has helped me a lot, you've shared a lot of thoughts and insight I can relate to. Right now I'm in love with a boy who says he loves me, and treats me very well...except when he gets really wasted at 2am on Saturdays he hits up ex's and girls possibly trying to hook up. He says he's never actually hooked up with them. So confused as to what to do...
ReplyDeleteHello Darling,
DeleteThank you so much for reaching out to me. I am so sorry that you have to go through this but let me assure you that everything will be alright. First of all, if you have an intuition that something isn't right then it probably isn't however, my advice will be to give him the benefit of the doubt until you find solid evidence. It's really sad when you love someone and they're putting you through unnecessary stress. You have to keep your guard up though because guys like these will have you thinking they love you so much; they will treat you right, say and do all the right things just so you don't feel suspicious of what they're doing behind your back.
I know you love him so I will not advice you to break things off with him because you have a suspicion he's cheating. If you have evidence or catch him in the act, then you know of the decision you have to make there.
I understand exactly what you're going through and it's not easy.
Please take care of yourself. Stay Strong.
Love Always,
Seema.