Love Yourself First

Dear Girls, 

It's sad to see a woman with a big heart & so much potential wasting her Time, Losing her Dignity, Values and Self Respect for a sorry ass excuse of a man.  

A man that has nothing to offer but pain, lies, stress and tears. A man that is blinded by his greed to find more jewels for his Collection rather than acknowledging the treasure he has in front of him. A man that will use her to his advantage and ultimately bring down her self-esteem and make her believe that there is no one else better than him out there. Never for a second believe that there isn't someone else better out there, There is. 

"Man" is probably too big and too good of a word to describe someone like that. Don't put up with it out of fear of being alone...Love yourself First.

Love Always!
Seema Sammy. 

Message To Your Ex

Dear Girls, 

Message to My Ex. 

Please don't talk to me now. I have my life together now. I've fallen in love again, and this time, it's with myself. Your name never crosses my mind. Your memory no longer has a home in my heart. I'm finally happy after all these months of you wasting my time and wasting my heart. I am breaking free from you. I am done with you. So please, when you're lonely at 9 PM because all your friends are hooking up, don't look for me. So when you see me dancing at a party and having the time of my life, don't look at me as the 'one who got away' . Look at me as the 'one whom you let go'. Look at the girl who has pieced herself back together after you shattered her.

Have a great day my loves.

Love Always,
Seema Sammy.

Strange Reflections In A Mirror

Dear Girls, 

 Sometimes the insecure parts of my brain try to sneak in and take over like when I look in a mirror and see a full, extended belly or stretch marks or cellulite or thighs that seem bigger, a small part of me is sad and tries to obsess over it but the REAL me doesn’t give a shit about things like the strange reflections in a mirror.

So I laugh and make a big, satisfying dinner because I know I treat my body amazingly and however it wants to look at this stage in my life is fine by me as long as I am medically healthy and able to live freely.


Love Always,
Seema Sammy. 

Learning to Accept Love

Dear Girls, 

Before I start writing my blog, I'll like to apologize to the people that read my blog for not being consistent . Please bare with me as I figure out a schedule that works best.

Sometimes our emotions can get the best of us, they can drag us so far down to where we forget just what it is that once made us happy. Small steps they say, small steps to a happier road, well what if the road on which we walk is far too bumpy? No one can tell you that the feelings you have are wrong. For years I’ve struggled with people that don’t understand my pain, my hurt, my frustration, but I don’t blame them. Not everyone will feel as deeply about the things that you do, I try my very best to tell myself this, but to no avail I seem to foolishly fall back into my habits. These habits are habitually pushing people away, being angry, and sometimes overcome with an overwhelming sense of melancholy.

Is it normal to be chronically sad? To always feel like you’re going to burst at the seems and just fucking explode because you’ve constantly held back emotions that were far too strong just to shove away. Welcome to my mind, where I’m convinced that I feel nothing at all, where I can pretend that all I care about is myself, but then my heart has to remind me that I’m too sympathetic and emotional to be this bad ass that I sometimes portray myself to be. I feel too much, that’s my problem. 

There’s a place in my mind where sad memories dwell, they stay locked away, but ever so often they come out to play and plague my never resting thoughts. What is it like to be calm and collected ? To never feel rejected, to smile and actually mean it ? To be loved and actually feel it ? I’m learning to accept love, it’s not an easy task when you feel so undeserving of affection……

Love Always, 

Seema Sammy.

This Past Year

Dear Girls, 

Well, here I am...writing on my blog again.....what a weird feeling. Sorry I've been incognito for a while. I'm going to try to update this more often and try to be consistent.

In the past year:

- I've learned what's it's like to be on your own ; taking care of bills, putting food on the table, being away from your family, being responsible and most importantly being independent.

-I've learned that in some ways I compromise way more than I ever thought I would. Some of these compromises aren't a big deal. And others I know I need to start standing up for what's right more often.


-I've learned that satisfaction comes from working hard and paving your own way.

-But I've also learned that money isn't everything.

-I've learned that I have a long way to go, but I'm a very lucky girl, with all the people who love me no matter what and would do anything to help me. My parents, good friends, and especially God. I would be lost without Him.

- I've learned that being alone with your own thoughts isn't so bad. You don't need to always be surrounded by people.

-Ive learned that people will be nice to you when it's convenient for them and for as long as they are benefiting from being around you.

- I've learned to take risks, maybe something beautiful will come of it or I might have the worst heartbreak ever. So exciting, either way I'll learn.

- I've learned to DO ME and not have second thoughts. People will talk regardless.

Anyway, here's a lovely disjointed post for you. I'll work on this organization thing later.


Have a wonderful day my loves.

Love Always,
Seema Sammy. 

Stop Being Bullies

Dear Girls, 

It deeply concerns me that people think that fat people hating themselves and calling themselves stupid and ugly is better than embracing who they are and being happy.

Someone’s dress size has no bearing on whether or not they deserve happiness. Being a shitty person who bullies others into thinking they’re worthless because of their bodies has a bearing on whether or not you deserve happiness.
With that being said, try being a good human being! You'll like it. Thanks.

Have a great day my loves!

Love Always,
Seema Sammy. 

You Are The Woman Of Your Own Dreams

 Dear Girls, 

I hope this powerful quote from Robin Lee penetrate your soul the same way it did mine.

 

 

"Repeat after me: I am the woman of my own dreams. I require no validation. My wish is my command. My life is my own. I build it. My voice is my own. I use it. I am relentless in my dedication to trusting myself. I am insatiable in my thirst for the extraordinary, and I do not settle for the mediocre.
I
Live
Without
Dead
Time."

—  Robin Lee

 

 

Have a wonderful Day my loves. 

 

Love Always, 

Seema Sammy.